I’m teaching myself to pull back when I start to notice my place in someone’s life.
It’s not always easy—especially when they mean so much to me—but I’ve learned that holding on too tightly only leaves me feeling out of place. Sometimes, no matter how deeply I care, I have to accept that I don’t hold the same space in their heart. And while that realization stings, I remind myself that it’s not a reflection of my worth but simply the way people are wired differently.
Not everyone loves the way you do. Not everyone sees relationships with the same depth or tenderness you offer. I’ve had to stop expecting my heart to be mirrored in others. It’s a tough lesson, but it’s freeing, too. It teaches me to cherish those who truly see me, while quietly letting go of the need to force connections that aren’t meant to be.
After all, your heart is meant to be protected, not stretched thin trying to earn a place in someone else’s world.
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